How to know if we are dating

by  |  10-Jul-2015 03:06

I know that sounds harsh, but let me explain my theory on Christian dating. But I do believe that if you are seeking God’s will about who you date, He will lead you to someone that is a true fit for you.

I don’t mean that your future spouse will be perfect or that you will think alike or always agree on everything. But I do believe that if you seek God’s guidance, He will lead you to the person who is going to be the match for you.

When friends began to point out other red flags about our relationship, I took some time to seriously seek God’s will on the matter.

Later on, when I prayed about the possibility of marriage, God answered that prayer clearly too. It’s not that my husband and I never disagree, or that we do not get on each other’s nerves periodically, but married life is so much simpler when you know that this is the person that God led you to.

With that in mind, we know God will see us through whatever difficulties we face in the future.

I believe that there are any number of people that we each could marry and make it work – and even be happy.

But I also believe that we will be happiest in marriage if we allow God to choose our mate for us.

” “If we have children, will it be important to him that they are raised by godly principles and involved in church?

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